Family tension.... help to solve it?

No no no dear....you have made a blunder mistake.....Could not figure out still what? Money rules there! Most of family issues today are because of money. If you give/get money from a third person then its not an issue. If its not today you can repay tomorrow or if you have given then you can orderly ask that. But when it comes to relatives that too brother-sister relationship you cannot get that back unless they themselves come forward and give the amount. In your case the issue is though you have given the money with a good mindset and you don't even expect them to give the money back to you, you have scolded her saying that you have given her money. Did they come and ask you the money? No right. you are the one who wholeheartedly gave it to them. Remember one thing, when we really need to help someone we should forget the help the moment after we do that. Since you have always thought that you gave them the money, those thoughts in your brain came into your words. Think how would they feel ashamed when you say that you gave them money. Can you digest what i'm trying to say? You should not have spoken that(money matter) at that point of time. Think if you in that position. If somebody gave you some money and whenever they say that i helped her, i helped her....how would you feel. Anyways past is past. You could not go back and change that. Now onwards remember one golden rule. Help others as much as possible. but never remember that you helped them. Once you start remembering then your mind will start developing ego by itself. Anyways you are a good lady and have a broad mind to help others. What you can do is to get back to your sisters and their husbands and tell them what you have spoken is wrong and ask sorry. Don't see ego in this matter. I would not say only you have done wrong.From your explanations it seems your sisters are not too attached with you. Once you ask sorry at the least you will be satisfied that you have not done anything wrong and even if you have done wrong you have asked for forgiveness. So you will be free. Try to change your mindset like your mother likes only them, your sisters dont like you....what are these huh? At last dont break a relationship for the useless sweater.......Good Luck!